Its incredible how many bad kissers there are out there. This article is dedicated to giving you need to know information so as to make it an entirely enjoyable experience for you both.
These are just the basics and some of the tips may be obvious, but so many still get missed. Here we go:
1 – Hygiene – ensure your breath is fresh and your teeth clean. Try to avoid smoking before a kiss as it’s gross for the other person. Always have some mints handy.
2 – Get comfortable – remember that this is a pleasant experience and everything about it should be right. Therefore make sure you are on an even level so your lips can meet easily. Best to actually lay on the ground together.
3 – Body language – make sure your body language is open and not closed. This is really important if you want to make your partner feel at ease. Hold them gently round the waste, shoulders, neck or face – no too hard though!
4 – Come together – just be natural and look into their eyes as you go in for the kiss. You will tell immediately if they are uncomfortable and to back off. When your lips touch close your eyes gently otherwise they will think you are a weirdo!
5 – The initial kiss – this is the bit where you feel your heart will jump out of your rib cage. Keep lips closed, don’t go in with tongue blaring. Also keep your eyes closed. Try to move your head gently as if you both stay ridged it’s like kissing one of your parents goodnight!
6 – The tongue – once you are ready to move on from the initial kiss, gently open your mouth a little and let your tongue lick their lips. Their lips will then part if they are comfortable. It must be really gentle and unthreatening. Once they open up gently explore their tongue. The tongue is hugely sensitive therefore you will feel everything and the more sensual you make it the more sensual they will feel.
7 – Tongue play – once you are both comfortable with the situation you can start to play with each others tongues a little more. Try sucking it gently, licking their lips, and generally try to put some of your own sensuality into it.
It’s a horrible feeling, you have the doubts that they will like you because at the moment you have no cash and therefore feel paralysed as to what experiences you can share with your new partner. Maybe you have 2 weeks to go until pay day and you have organised a date for next week – should you cancel? Simple answer – NO!
There are loads of things you can do and you don’t need hardly any money to do them. All you need is some imagination and some effort – in fact your romantic side will shine more so than if you were to lay on the champagne and roses.
Your Mums garden
Most mums have an uncanny knack of growing the most amazing flowers ever seen. She will be more than happy to let you loose with a pair of scissors if it means you finding love. Ask her first obviously!!!
Paint a picture
Sounds a bit gay I know, but trust me if you have any sign of creativity in you then get it down on paper and write a little message to go with it. If you draw like a serial killer, ignore this idea!
Go to an art or trinket shop and buy some beads for a few pence. Make a necklace personalised to their favourite colours. Goes down a treat.
Drive them potty
There are loads of pottery shops turning up on the high streets whereby you can go and make anything you want for practically no money. They even fire your work of art for you so it’ll last forever…. Well until it’s dropped of course.
Send them a virtual gift
Ecards are everywhere these days, there are loads of different designs about allowing you to complete the message. These are normally free, but watch out that they don’t look too cheap. You can even send virtual flowers to someone now…. Great idea. Don’t let the virtual reality stop you from doing something that is reality though. A virtual gift is only a click away from being deleted.
Bit of fun, give your partner a few cards that represent vouchers that are redeemable at any time. May include:
• Lovin (they choose what!)
Become a poet
If you have any literacy about you then this is a great one for wooing your partner. It demonstrates a soft and romantic side to you… if you are a man just don’t let her give it to the lads or your best man should you ever decide to marry – very embarrassing!
Make them a CD
This is a wonderful gift and highly personalised. Put together a CD of all your favourite songs ever. Try to mix the genres up a little as it expresses more about your personality.
According to some US sites Jim Carey has been dating the ex-Playboy bunny girl for a few months now and apparently they’re so smitten with each other they’re planning a ‘quickie’ wedding.
Some of their friends (so called) have grassed them up and divulged that they will probably be heading off to Cabo San Lucas, Mexico, to tie the knot at the end of the summer.
Carey has had a string of marriages with two under his belt, actress Lauren Holly & first wife Melissa Womer.
Something tells me he may soon have another divorce settlement to make!
I stumbled across this site earlier and felt it needed to be in my ‘niche dating’ section because it really is quite unique in terms of the visitors it is looking to attract.
It is a site set up in the States specialising in attracting people with Cancer, Diabetes, IBS, Obesity, Deafness, Allergies, Hepatitis, Infertility/Impotence, and STDs. My first thought and concern with it was that you can’t categorise people with cancer and impotence! Two very different but still nasty things to happen to someone. Have people looking to make a buck out of the online dating revolution gone too far this time?
The good side of the site is that it pairs people who have experienced similarly nasty things in their life and therefore provides them with a sense that they are not alone and there are other people out there with the same problems looking for a mate. The site is also free for a limited time so as to build its customer base, and once it has achieved a certain number members will be asked to pay a low monthly fee which will then be given to each charity for each condition.
According to Ricky Durham the President of Prescription4Love.com, “Finding others with similar circumstances is a natural desire for everyone. Honesty is important, but finding an opportunity to mention such subjects can be difficult. By using Prescription4Love.com, you can be honest in advance and progress to the next stages of friendships and relationships.”
Do you think it will take off?
According to a couple of websites the two have recently started dating. The 80’s legend has been trying to keep it quiet for a while (I would!).
Mel B recently relocated to Los Angeles where she is trying to penetrate the US market after failing to do so in the UK. Her new album is called ‘LA State of Mind’ if any of you die hard fans want to throw your money away.
The Golden Child Star split from his wife of 12 years last year and now obviously wants to spice up his life with a scary ex spice gal.
Which one did you say was Mel B?