Believe it or not a recent survey carried out by Lavalife targeting 400 singles aged 18 to 55, found almost half of men, 44% are looking to score on the first date.
On the other side of the coin, 66% of the ladies questioned expect their date to foot the bill, and almost the same amount would not date a man who earned significantly less than them.
When it comes to what they look for in a fella, women rate sense of humour over intelligence, physical attractiveness, self-confidence and social skills. – Blokes, get your ass to Clown School!
Men on the other hand are most impressed with intelligence, with beauty coming in a close second, oh… did I forget to mention boobs and bum! Over 99 per cent of men polled would date an older woman too.
New relationships are full of excitement and exploration of bodies and souls. You can’t help but think of that person all day and night, it’s natural!
But what happens when the novelty wares off and you get a little bored. Either you move on (normally because you are not ready) OR if you have grown to love them you should work to make it feel special again.
There are some great ways to get it back on track and that ember back into a flame:
Get away – I’m talking about getting away from the boring grind of every day. Surprise them with a romantic weekend in the country…. Or the city. There’s nothing better than changing the environment, there is too much around your everyday environment to remind you of the boring side of life. Even if you have no budget – go camping… just get out the house!
Dancing can help stir the deepest sexual feelings we have!
Get spontaneous – Change the routine. It is too easy to get stuck into a routine of making love in the same place at the same time, try something new. Grab your partner and just present a little spontaneity, do it on the kitchen table if need be.
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The chirpy cockney beauty who we know so well from Eastenders is on a roll…. She’d be quite happy to date 52 men a year if she could.
Please tell me Mick Hucknall didn’t go there!
She was recently quoted saying “I’m going to play the field and see what happens, event if that means having a different man on my arm every week!” She also said dating Paul Nicholls and Mick Hucknall has put her off dating celebs…. I’m surprised it hasn’t put her off men if you want my opinion!!!
She says they are too “self obsessed” and “can be such tarts, you can’t trust most of them.”
If she was once attracted to Hucknall… there’s hope for all of us!
Well, if you want to date an ego, date an actor. Micha Barton said recently that dating actors isn’t what it’s cracked up to be, she says their vain… show me an actor who doesn’t think he is god and if you find oine… he’s probably lying about being an actor to get laid!
Most actors aren’t even comfortable with themselves and live in a world where they are the resurrection and they need to check that they still have a halo round their head, but I guess that’s what makes them actors.
She said recently: “I have dated actors and I have to say it’s a very odd experience.”
“It’s a little unsettling to be with someone who cares about how they look as much as you do.”
It’s the moment when your whole body tingles and it feels like your heart is going to sprout legs and just walk right out of your chest!
It’s an amazing feeling that we wish every kiss would feel like, but unfortunately doesn’t. So…. just enjoy it while it lasts.
Come ere and giv’us a kiss!
So, when do you know if they are up for the kiss? Well, hopefully they will be showing you some classic body language traits .
The rule of thumb is a kiss is acceptable after the first 3 dates.
I’m talking:
• Open palm pointing to the object of their desire
• Mirroring of your gestures
• Head tilt exposing the neck
• Self touching
• Presentation of wrists
• Legs and feet pointing at you
• Eye pupils expanding
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