If you’re dating online you are spoilt for choice. Never have you been subjected to so many potential lovers all wanting a piece of you. You can quite easily chat to 10 prospects at the same time, dropping the same lyrical landmines and wooing your way into their hearts. Prospects even become expendable and the ones who don’t want to know can just sod off!!!
It’s very easy to become a cyber-slag! And that means men as well!
The alarming thing is that nobody even has to know that you are dating around online… until you get a load of abuse on Facebook where ex lovers may start posting nasty things about you. This can land you in some serious hot water with other dates you are stringing along… just be aware that you could get busted at any time.
You’ve also got the health issues of unprotected sex etc.. but more about that in a minute.
Whilst there is nothing wrong with dating a number of different people online, you have to keep your options open of course, there are a couple of simple rules to adhere to:
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Posted by Tom Wilkins on Thu 11th October 2007 at 05:08 AM, Filed in General Dating
Every one dreads the early days of dating someone new and playing the games that we do. It’s one of those things that we just have to do for some reason… you almost have to pretend to be someone you’re not for a few occasions, until you feel confident enough to let your guard down of course.
The main reason we play hard to get is to put up an invisible barrier that is there to protect us from rejection in the early days. You are being judged all the time as well as doing the judging and they are feeling exactly the same way as you!
Whilst this is all well and good and it’s a natural reaction to protect yourself from rejection by playing hard to get and getting them to demonstrate their feelings before you divulge yours, you should remember not to play it too hard… as most people get bored or get the wrong impression and bugger off, leaving you empty handed!
There is a happy medium!
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Trade in that Subaru Impreza, Mitsubishi Evo…. You’ll never pull in them, well certainly not a classy bird anyway!
These are the cars to collect in… you’ll be guaranteed instant love and affection, so without further ado:
No. 10 – Dodge Challenger
A recent remake of the classic ‘Dukes of Hazard’ car, this beauty will purr their way into their hearts. Note – it’s the ONLY muscle car I am allowing into the top 10!
No. 9 – Ford GT40
Either the original or the modern version will do. You’ll need £200k to purchase one and probably the same amount if you want to run it! Never take this option if your date is an environmentalist – she’ll probably ‘key it’ and tell you to F off!
No. 8 – 1956 Porsche 356 Speedster
This should be No. 1 in my book. Look at it… it’s beautiful. It trundles along at 30mph but it’s like true love, to be taken slow! Not the most reliable engine being air cooled, but it is over 50 years old!!! I’ll give you £5 if you can’t pull in one of these.
No. 7 - Mercedes 300SL Gullwing
Now here’s a classis with some true grace. Imagine her face as the wing pops up and sees you dressed in black tie, you’ve got a licence to thrill my friend! Shame they don’t all come with the James Bond ejector seat… a great way of losing nagging women! An original will set you back £250k… if you can find one!
No. 6 – Porsche 911
Hmmmm… I love these motors BUT everyone knows them as a penis extension for balding men in their 40’s. BUT you have to admit that a lady’s face lights up with dollar signs when you roll up in one. You’re guaranteed a shag at the very least.
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Posted by Bob Bulmer on Tue 9th October 2007 at 08:36 AM, Filed in Niche Dating
EuropeanKiss.org has just launched and is enticing single Europeans who want a piece of the European culture and lifestyle but live in Canada, USA and Europe.
It is entirely free which is in its favour, and it claims to be the only dating site that uses Windows Vista gadgets. Two gadgets in fact; Quick Stats Gadget; shows up-to-date information about photo rating, new mail messages, profile views, interests received, new users, users online. New Users Gadget, randomly shows new users photos based on your gender preference.
There’s also a 1-on-1 flash based Instant Messenger with live audio, video and text chat, video profile recording, video uploads, post up to 20 photos, community group features, including group chat rooms, group photo galleries and group message/discussion boards.
If you’re still bored after that lot then give up internet dating for good!!!
Posted by Ruth Miller on Tue 9th October 2007 at 05:21 AM, Filed in Proposal Ideas
I get asked a fair amount why ladies are so keen to settle down, obviously the question is posed by men… mostly anyhows!
There are a couple of reasons for this; firstly, ladies may be getting clucky for babies, and it’s natural to want to tie the not first. Interestingly this is getting later and later in life with many ladies looking towards early to mid 30s to tie the knot. You can put this down to trends as well as the need to make more money to build a more secure world to bring babies into. Secondly, it’s in their nature. Back in cave men days women would be far more loyal than men and often only want one partner – so it’s bred into our genetics if you like, get over it!
For all you ladies wandering what you can do to increase your chances of finding Mr Right you MUST read Why Men Marry Some Women and Not Others by John T. Molloy. It’s a book based on scientific evidence culled from several thousand about to be married couples, and why the men decided they had to marry this specific person instead of another they’d dated previously – It’s absolutely fascinating and a great read.
(Via About Dating)
