Posted by Bob Bulmer on Tue 17th July 2007 at 02:41 AM, Filed in Dating Safety
After a recent Chinese female student was raped and killed by a stranger she met whilst taking a stroll, the Chinese authorities have distributed a book to all students about dating safely.
The booklet contains details and useful advice on topics like how to deal with a harassing ex, how to tell if a dating partner is cheating, and how to avoid sexual assault during a date.
This is a great move and other countries should start taking note and educating young people. In fact it should actually be part of the curriculum in schools across the world.
Posted by Tom Wilkins on Fri 6th July 2007 at 01:22 AM, Filed in Dating Safety
It happens, so I’m told - this is a modern World!. Married couples sometimes want to go out and try their luck elsewhere, fair enough!
But there is dating etiquette to remember:
• Never bring a date home
• The date should last no longer than 3 hrs
• Share your experiences of the date with one another
• Aim to have at least 2 dates a month
• Always let your spouse know where you are going to be
• Help each other choose a suitable date
• Try to date on the same evening
• Don’t get too sexual too early – unless you have agreed it!
• Don’t tell the kids, unless they are at an age they can understand.
Posted by Hayden Allen on Tue 19th June 2007 at 02:34 AM, Filed in Dating Safety
Sounds like something out of a horror film I know! This guy is a proper nutter who manipulated single mums to get to their kids. The 2003 drowning death of a three-year-old girl was no accident , and neither was the series of injuries to young children they say Joel Zellmer left in his wake.
Court documents accuse Zellmer of dating women with young children, persuading them to take out insurance policies on the kids, and then finding some way to harm the children to try to collect on the policies.
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Posted by Ruth Miller on Mon 18th June 2007 at 03:10 AM, Filed in Dating Safety
Meeting a new lover and experiencing new sexual emotions and senses is huge fun. It’s like having a new toy but 10 times better!
But what happens when their idea of ‘trying something new’ sexually is way beyond where you want to go at this stage. In fact it can put a very sour taste in your mouth and actually push them away from you.
There are loads of very kinky people out there, and whist they obviously enjoy doing what they do, sometimes it’s just not suitable for us and certainly something we would not entertain.
The sketch in Sex In he City when the politician wanted to urinate over Jessica in the shower always comes to mind.
So if you are the kinky one then just control those urges if you want to hang on to your date, no doubt they will come round to your way of thinking if they like you.
If you have a date that asks something very kinky of you, never be pressured into it if it makes you feel uncomfortable. Be firm and either say that you are not ready for that sort of thing, OR alternatively just tell them where to go!
Posted by Hayden Allen on Tue 24th April 2007 at 07:54 AM, Filed in Dating Safety
This bloke must either be very desperate or very stoopid!
After hooking up with some make believe lovelies in Russia, who were probably 900lb gorillas, he was duped out of £16,000 when asked for air fairs to fly them over. The lady in question was called ‘Natalia’, and after her demands to send £10,000 allowing her to get a visa and a flight to come and see him, he coughed up no questions asked.
It doesn’t get any better I’m afraid folks, he actually went to Heathrow Airport to go and greet her on 4 separate occasions, but guess what? She never showed.
“I feel no ill in my heart. I did really love her,” Hodgkinson told the BBC. What is this bloke on!
After the Russian encounter he thought he’d try his luck with ladies from Senegal through a Christian dating site, so Mr. Generous sent £6,000 to get her into the UK, and guess what, she never arrived either!
He even borrowed the money from his ol’lady AND remortgaged his house. His mother is now haing to take out a loan to repay the debt!
“I did tell him off about keeping going to Heathrow,” she said. “In my heart I knew they wouldn’t ever turn up. But he never listened.”
