You can do too much dating you know… the pressure is on for you to succeed with all your mates and family eagerly asking you on a daily basis whether ‘last night’s date was the one!’
If you’ve been dating for a while without settling with one particular partner then you also become tired of having the same conversations with each different date. The end result its that you get tired and very bored of dating!
All the effort you put into meeting someone new is also a huge stress – the calls, emails, the adrenalin rush (when you like them), the late nights … the list goes on!
The truth of the matter is that if we keep looking for that certain someone you just don’t find them I’m afraid. Yep, you may have a few sexy nights with different partners but does that make you really that happy – then you start thinking and get even more tired thinking about it!
If his sounds like you, you are not alone I’m pleased to tell you. There is a solution I am pleased to say… TAKE A BREAK FROM DATING!
It’s as easy as that. Stop going to those singles nights, speed dating lunches and meeting prospects online when you get back home… turn the computer off and chill out!
You’re more likely to find someone if you do this anyway because you will be relaxed and truly at peace with yourself for a change!
At last there’s a book on the market which tells all us ladies where to holiday as a single lady looking for romance as well as ways to tell the local slimeballs to sling their hooks!
‘High maintenance’ is a common phrase used today and basically means that you are demanding.
You crave attention, demand your way all the time and don’t give others too much respect in terms of their feelings and desires. BUT you normally get what you want at the end of the day… one way or another!
Being high maintenance therefore isn’t a boast, in fact you should avoid being so at all costs. Most people dating someone high maintenance would run the other way, but then you get the idiots that hang around of course.
So what makes someone appear needy? Here are some signs to watch for:
- Certainly being too full on straight away
- Being sexually aggressive
- Looking through marriage magazines during early dates
- A forced meeting with their folks soon after hooking up
- A clear ‘I want’ attitude
- All the conversation is about them
FACT - If they are not in control of their own emotions or they can’t make decisions for themselves!
It’s important to keep a little romance going throughout a relationship and this involves spontaneity and surprise. Always keep your partner guessing and most importantly take control of the situation and make it happen. It’s no good asking your lover what you could do to be more romantic because that in itself takes the romance away immediately.
Here are my top 10 ways to introduce a little more romance, without breaking the bank either.
Flowers – No it doesn’t need to be their birthday or valentines, see a nice bunch in the shop window and go buy them. Spending £20 will reward you in more ways than one! Check out what flowers mean here.
‘I love you’ first thing in the morning – Make these the first words your lover wakes up to and be prepared for morning glory!
Romantic drive – Sometimes we ignore the beauty just around the corner from us, open your eyes and look around, there are loads of places to go and within an hours drive. A spontaneous ‘mystery tour’ means quality time and some beautiful surrounds.
Chic flick and a bottle of wine – Get the duvet, open the bottle, cuddle up and enjoy the film… even if it does make you wrench! Some great romantic film ideas here.
Cook them a romantic dinner – Get home before them, light the candles, dig out the Sade CD and cook some sexy food… romantic recipe ideas here
