Posted by Ruth Miller on Tue 2nd October 2007 at 03:34 AM, Filed in Tips For Dating
Are you up for blind dates?
Well if so just be prepared that you have no idea who you meeting and they could be entirely wrong for you… in fact it’s more than likely they are.
Therefore do yourself a favor and make the first date very short… In fact just enough time for a coffee. This has 2 advantages – firstly, they won’t feel difficult if they don’t like you and obviously vice versa. By making it short there is far less pressure on both of you.
Also by making it brief and ‘cheap’ there is little pressure when it comes to paying the bill, a couple of coffees will set you back a couple of quid so not really a stress! It’ll take you just 20 seconds to work out if you like them and vice versa.
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There are so many reasons for feeling the need to cheat on our other halves, understanding them may help you both come to terms on why it happened, giving you something to work on to fix it.
If you have a forgiving partner then you may be lucky, but if you cheat don’t expect just to stroll straight back into the relationship and everything to be OK… you’ll need to focus on getting the trust back.
Reasons for infidelity and how to fix them:
Boredom is a massive relationship killer - Try spicing things up in the bedroom!
Arguing about silly things – Try a change of scene, get out of your immediate surrounds and see what happens.
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Posted by Bob Bulmer on Mon 27th August 2007 at 01:09 AM, Filed in Tips For Dating
Ladies I’m gonna let you into a few little secrets about millionaire men and how to get them crawling after you and bombarding you with gifts.
It could be you!
Firstly let me explain to you that men who have made their own money have normally worked hard for it, started out in business and realised their dream by being driven, demanding and never giving up on what they are striving to achieve. Now put yourself into the equation – if men with money make you weak at the knees like it will do most ladies then you may as well get to the back of the queue! However if you aren’t star struck or humble to them, then they will take an interest in you. You see it works like this, these guys command a wad of cash and can buy pretty much anything they want. As soon as they can’t have something AND they can’t buy it they want it more… and more… until it drives them wild with excitement. They cherish a challenge and will do anything to make their life more exciting.
So what can you do to get their attention?
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Posted by Ruth Miller on Fri 10th August 2007 at 01:41 AM, Filed in Tips For Dating
Us ladies all know which men to steer clear of but more often than not we end up with them! Why is that?
My theory is that we just aren’t choosy enough!
So this article is specifically for you ladies, and acts as a gentle reminder as to whom exactly to stay well clear of:
Your children’s friends
Ok, so if you have kids and they are starting to introduce their friends to you, my experience is that if you are a yummy mummy you will attract the attention of the young rutting stags wit teenage crushes. Don’t whatever you do lead them on in any way.. just be happy that you are probably the subject of some rather interesting dreams. I knew a lady who was always keen to jump into bed of her son’s friends and it turned out ugly as you can probably imagine.
Your boss
As we all work so much harder these days it’s very easy to get caught up in the excitement of the corporate culture and bosses who are full of their own ego. An affair with your boss is a one way ticket to a new job! Whilst it may be exciting at the time, what happens when you or they get bored!
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Posted by Tom Wilkins on Mon 16th July 2007 at 02:33 AM, Filed in Tips For Dating
Contrary to popular belief you don’t actually have to spend a bean when looking for a new date. That’s right, no expensive bar or restaurant tabs required. Just have a little imagination and an easy going approach.
Here are my top 5 places to find a date without having to spend a bean.
1- The local library. Every town has one and they are often packed with intelligent and shy single people desperate for someone to come and drag them away from the books. Yes, I know that you are not allowed to talk so have some fun and start passing written messages to people you fancy. Beware though, you may get booted out for pesting!
2- The local park. Parks are often teeming with groups of people or lonely singles walking their best friends. Borrow a dog if you need to, but certainly don’t miss it off your list. A cleverly thrown Frisbee can be a great aid. (Below - Hyde park, London - a fantastic place to find a date).
3- Business networking evenings. Not only will you be popular with your boss for suggesting you attend, but you will also meet loads of lonely entrepreneurs with a healthy drive and sense of ambition.
4- Museums. In the UK most museums are now free. Make the most of it and go find some culture… and a partner with similar interests. Conversation won’t be short because of the interesting things lying around a museum.
5- Register on facebook or MySpace. These social networking sites are entirely free and have millions of people registered with them. You’ll meet old lovers, their friends, their friends friends… it’s addictive!
