It bugs me why so many of us (me included) go out and see someone we take a shine to, BUT can’t build up the courage to approach them for fear of rejection and therefore lose out.
It often turns out that they too feel exactly the same way, and would welcome the confidence boost of being chatted up.
I don’t know who got luckier to be honest!
Here is a tip that will immediately change your mindset – Confidence is a turn on for both men and women, we love it, can’t get enough of it, so FIND IT!
Rather than look at them and think ‘will they like me?’, step back a minute and change your mindset to ‘will I like them?’. The change in your body language from this simple exercise will make you far more attractive – you are after all just as special as them!
Posted by Peter Brady on Sun 20th May 2007 at 05:01 AM, Filed in Tips For Dating
When you put yourself into the category of being single and dating you are immediately putting yourself at a disadvantage and putting far to much pressure on the whole situation. This is a huge turn off!
Dating should be a fun past-time but for most of us it’s an absolute nightmare! You can’t go out without saying to yourself “what’s wrong with me, I can’t pull” or something else just as daft! The reason is that you are giving off the wrong vibes because you are putting too much pressure on the whole thing.
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After a date, whether it be a blind date, from a dating site or maybe someone you met in a bar, the best thing you can do is drop them a short, friendly and humorous email. You will have both come away from the date thinking “I wander what they think of me” and “I wander how that went”. If you thought it went well then put their mind at rest and drop them an email or text.
There are some rules about this first email or text:
• Don’t show any emotions, keep it casual. No telling them how you can’t stop thinking about them!
• Keep it to one sentence, maximum 2.
• Keep the email or text open about the next date, put the ball in their court.
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Posted by Peter Brady on Fri 18th May 2007 at 04:23 AM, Filed in Tips For Dating
It may sound like a cruel subject for a post, but by letting your dates know you are dating other people you will immediately make yourself hot property.
‘Why’? I hear you ask.
Well, we all want things we can’t have, and the harder we have to work to get it the more we want it. It’s a cycle. Think of the thing you most want in life – you want it because you can’t get it right now!
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When you meet a prospective partner you are being tested from the outset. They want to know if you can stand up to them and therefore will look to push the boundaries with cheekiness. If you roll over and let them walk over you then forget it, they are looking for someone who can stand up for them in the long term!
But, if you show a bit of courage then you will be of interest to them as they haven’t beaten you - it will drive them wild and they will want more. You will initially become a game to them hence the ‘game show’ scenario.
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