3 ways to relax the atmosphere on a date
A date can be a very nerve racking experience, especially for those of us that are not the most confident souls. Therefore in order to get the most out of a date you need to relax to really enjoy yourself and get the most from it…
There are some great ways you can create a relaxed atmosphere on the date. Remember, your date will probably be feeling the same so you would be doing you both a favor by doing one if not all of these suggestions:
Lighting – choose a venue with relaxed mood lighting. Soft lighting is best, especially if you are a little nervous and you want to hide in the shadows. Soft lighting also makes your pupils dilate, making you more attractive believe it or not!
Music – Ideally you want to find somewhere with soft music so you don’t have to scream at your date to be heard. If you are looking for a suitable venue try to find somewhere that plays music that you are comfortable with and that relaxes you. Music you can identify with also makes great conversation pieces for those quiet moments.
Somewhere you have been before – familiar surroundings give you confidence and make you feel a little safer with the environment. Try not to go anywhere that all your mates hang out though as this is really off putting for your date and makes them feel a little threatened because you have the advantage of being in friendly waters. You may also want to choose an environment that you have been before because at least you know the food will be good!
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