Are they going off me and what to do if they are?
Posted by Hayden Allen-Vercoe on Fri 8th December 2006 at 08:33 AM, Filed in
It’s a pain in the ass! You start dating someone and all of a sudden they go cold on you, not returning your calls, emails or texts. So you ask yourself, ‘what is wrong with me, what happened there?’ It would be nice to get some feedback at least!
Watching time tick by is SO boring, don’t do it!
There are hundreds of possible reasons, but it is normally down to them considering their options OR they are just trying to run away. It happened to me, but turned out that my ex was pregnant with my son! She just needed time to work out what she was doing.
The BIG question is whether or not to pursue them, and how will it look?
The simple answer is NO, don’t bother.
Cont…
9 out of 10 times they will want to go their own way and they just are not worth pursuing. It’s an easy way out to just disappear. You wont be able to help yourself though and will no doubt be riled as to why they are ignoring you, therefore you pursue them and ask them the question ‘why didn’t you call me’?
Be ready for the excuses, they will come. These people are just not worth going after, they could be married, seeing someone else, not fancy you or just be afraid of commitment.
Just keep moving on but be aware that you may be putting too much pressure for success on your date too early on. Just go with it and try to enjoy yourself.
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