Are you making yourself too available to a potential date?
Most of us aspire to achieve the things that are often hard to reach. This is also the case in the dating game. Picture this, we want to be desired by a potential partner and here lies the game. A potential partner will desire you more if you are harder to get. Items that are readily available have little or no real value in our minds because they are just there. Items that are rarer like luxury cars and jewellery are harder for us to obtain and therefore more desirable – welcome to the human race and the way it thinks!
We have all been too available at one stage in our lives and lost out because of it. The secret is to create a need, remove it and then you will be desired. People love to get their hands on things they can only dream of.
Stop waiting by the phone, answering emails within 2 minutes of receiving them and giving them too much attention. Make yourself desirable by playing hard to get. It isn’t easy and I don’t pretend it to be – but if you do it you will see immediate rewards and you will create an air about you that everyone wants a piece of.
By creating this elusiveness you will spur them to desire you more, and the lengths they go to will be immediate and very obvious. I’m not talking about ignoring them, but I am talking about taking it slow. When in a new relationship I visualise myself on a beach and just relax with the whole thing. Find your visualisation and relax.
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