Attraction body language - the rule of 4.

Posted by Hayden Allen-Vercoe on Thu 21st September 2006 at 08:44 AM, Filed in Body Language

If a prospective partner is truly interested in you then they should display at least 4 non-verbal signals towards you. No less as otherwise you could be making a HUGE mistake!

You must also be sure that those signals are coming your way rather than someone else’s, as well as taking into account that we all like to flirt, and the signals could be purely of a flirting nature.

If you have read 4 clear signals it’s a great time to wade in and strike up a conversation, but beware of changing body language when you do this as you may find it goes against you and turns negative. However, one positive signal could easily lead to hundreds of them!

Also bear in mind that you should put no time line to signals as it may happen in 5 minutes or it could even be over 5 months.

Look for any of the following:

Open palm pointing to the object of their desire
Mirroring of your gestures
Head tilt exposing the neck
Self touching
Presentation of wrists
Legs and feet pointing at you

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