Cheating via online sex.
I’ve got a nightmare on my hands and need some help please. I have been with my husband for 4 years now (married for 2). We are not sexually compatible at all and it’s pretty mundane actually! I do however love him like crazy. I recently found a ‘no strings attached sex’ dating site where I found a guy in a similar situation. We met up after a few naughty photos were swapped and had the most amazing sex ever.
It felt like a kettle letting off steam. I am still with my husband and he doesn’t know anything, however I have massive guilt about what happened and rightfully so… but am tempted to get back to this guy I met online. I know what is morally right but I don’t know whether I should be selfish for once and put myself first… the sex was good though, and it was only sex after all!
Doctor Date says
Marriage is all about commitment to each other so I am certainly not advising about the benefits of cheating. Although this question is not related so much to dating, I feel like I should at least give you the benefit of my knowledge and experience.
I suggest you stop the affair straight away and talk to your husband openly about your sex life and why it isn’t working for you. If you don’t fancy him, then get a divorce as it’s unlikely you ever will. You ca still be friends.
See the reaction when you are open with him, but have a back up plan to discuss perhaps trying a few new things in bed. You may find the introduction of toys and role play adds a whole new dimension to your life in general. Marriage is about sharing everything, but if you have made a mistake by marrying that person you will know it deep down and make a decision to stop the deceit and hurt straight away.
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