‘Cold’ dating!
When you first catch a glance being beamed at you wherever you are, its a natural instinct to look away.
If you are interested you should initially look at the floor because if you look elsewhere it may be perceived that you are not interested. By not looking away at all you may be putting too much pressure on the other person. Then, go back for a second, third and fourth scan of the other person, but remember not to stare as this is a hostile move! Hold a gaze for around 4 seconds if possible as this intensifies the arousal. Throw a sincere smile at the person to gauge receptiveness and then think about making your move.
BEWARE – cultural differences may mean you read the situation entirely wrong.
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