Don’t stress, its easy to find a sexy date, honest!

Posted by Hayden Allen-Vercoe on Wed 24th May 2006 at 04:43 PM, Filed in Tips For Dating

Everyone who wants to meet a new partner has a dream match.  However you may say, finding that date is really not an easy task!

I would argue that the person of your dreams is entirely achievable and that you shouldn’t take 2nd best.  Life is too short. 


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My dream date, with her lasso of course!

How you can achieve your perfect partner:

1 - Beauty is only skin deep.  Attraction is important, however more often than never most ‘beautiful people’ are wrapped up in themselves and really not pleasant to date as all they can do is look in the mirror and admire themselves.  I am generalising a little but beware of this before you go got that ‘god or godess’.

2 - Your perfect date is human, this means that they are entirely approachable and don’t physically hold the cult status you give them. 

3 - Once you have built up the courage to chat to them don’t be too formal or stiff.  Try to relax before you make the more.  Try to tell yourself ‘I’m only talking to them, and nothing more’.  Always present yourself with good manners – they go very far, especially these days when you hardly ever see them.

4 - Present yourself with confidence.  Body language is key to success.  Chest our and straight neck presents yourself as confident.  I suggest presenting open palms and a gentle smile – this is presenting very open body language.  Don’t be over confident as this is interpreted as arrogance and a massive turn off for most people.  Just present yourself in the best possible way, you can’t ask yourself for any more.

5 - Don’t harp on about you, you, you!  Ask about them and show an interest.  This is a great way to tell if you have an immediate compatibility or if they are just a stiff piece of wood.

6 - Don’t drop a cheesy chat up line.  In fact avoid any of them… they just don’t work!  I know I post some on this site but that is only to make you smile.

7 - Don’t get pushy!  This is a massive turnoff.  Just tell them enough through body language that you find them attractive and then leave it up to them.  Hanging round like a bad smell really isn’t pleasant – give them the space they need, and if they like you they will be back…. Trust me!

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