French Kissing (or frenchie) essential tips

Posted by Hayden Allen-Vercoe on Fri 21st July 2006 at 06:32 AM, Filed in General Dating

Its incredible how many bad kissers there are out there. This article is dedicated to giving you need to know information so as to make it an entirely enjoyable experience for you both. 

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These are just the basics and some of the tips may be obvious, but so many still get missed. Here we go:

1 – Hygiene – ensure your breath is fresh and your teeth clean.  Try to avoid smoking before a kiss as it’s gross for the other person.  Always have some mints handy.

2 – Get comfortable – remember that this is a pleasant experience and everything about it should be right.  Therefore make sure you are on an even level so your lips can meet easily.  Best to actually lay on the ground together.

3 – Body language – make sure your body language is open and not closed.  This is really important if you want to make your partner feel at ease.  Hold them gently round the waste, shoulders, neck or face – no too hard though!

4 – Come together – just be natural and look into their eyes as you go in for the kiss.  You will tell immediately if they are uncomfortable and to back off.  When your lips touch close your eyes gently otherwise they will think you are a weirdo!

5 – The initial kiss – this is the bit where you feel your heart will jump out of your rib cage. Keep lips closed, don’t go in with tongue blaring.  Also keep your eyes closed.  Try to move your head gently as if you both stay ridged it’s like kissing one of your parents goodnight!

6 – The tongue – once you are ready to move on from the initial kiss, gently open your mouth a little and let your tongue lick their lips.  Their lips will then part if they are comfortable.  It must be really gentle and unthreatening. Once they open up gently explore their tongue. The tongue is hugely sensitive therefore you will feel everything and the more sensual you make it the more sensual they will feel.

7 – Tongue play – once you are both comfortable with the situation you can start to play with each others tongues a little more.  Try sucking it gently, licking their lips, and generally try to put some of your own sensuality into it.

DON’T:
Bite
Suck too hard
Make your tongue work at 10000 miles per hour (gently does it)
Ram tongue down as far as you can
Stop breathing!

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