Getting too kinky too early on in a relationship!
Posted by Ruth Miller on Mon 18th June 2007 at 03:10 AM, Filed in Dating Safety
Meeting a new lover and experiencing new sexual emotions and senses is huge fun. It’s like having a new toy but 10 times better!
But what happens when their idea of ‘trying something new’ sexually is way beyond where you want to go at this stage. In fact it can put a very sour taste in your mouth and actually push them away from you.
There are loads of very kinky people out there, and whist they obviously enjoy doing what they do, sometimes it’s just not suitable for us and certainly something we would not entertain.
The sketch in Sex In he City when the politician wanted to urinate over Jessica in the shower always comes to mind.
So if you are the kinky one then just control those urges if you want to hang on to your date, no doubt they will come round to your way of thinking if they like you.
If you have a date that asks something very kinky of you, never be pressured into it if it makes you feel uncomfortable. Be firm and either say that you are not ready for that sort of thing, OR alternatively just tell them where to go!
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