Have I missed the boat?
Hi,
I noticed your info on the web and I just had to get in touch and ask for some major help.
I have met a very nice attractive person in the local Gym and we have had chats which have been very pleasant indeed and we generally meet on a Monday for one of the classes. I visited Brussels recently and decided to bring some Chocolates back for her which I think she was very happy with.
I got a nice txt message to say that she was sorry that she had missed me the other week and that she should be in next week. Well she was which was great and this I guess has been going on for about 3 months (knowing her and seeing her in the Gym). Started charting as you do, the other night she mentioned that she is going out on a date this week with a guy that is older than her.
Now, have I miss read the situation along the way? (this would usual for me)
Is she possible interested and is testing me?
Is she actually going on a date as she has thought that I was not interested.
I have never been able to pluck up the courage to ask her out as it always sounds bad, destroys the goodfriendship and I generally get No all the time, hence not asking for a long time.
What is my next move? do I ask how her date went and what sort of response should I do in return?
Have I missed the boat?
Forever grateful on any help.
Doctor Date says
Hi Richard
I think you are missing something here. I believe she is awaiting you to make the first move, and so you should.
You may have been playing too cool, and she is now trying to entice you to stand up and grab her!
Cont…
I suggest that you see her face to face (not text or phone or email) and say something like:
You say “I don’t think you should go on that date”
She says “why’s that?”
You say “because you should come out with me instead!”
If she laughs, which she may do, it will be a nervous reaction to you being the bold one. Point to you!
If she categorically says there is nothing there, then at least you have tried and can rest at night knowing you did so.
Go for it, what’s the worst that can happen eh!
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