How do I know if she likes me?
I’ve met this girl online and been out for 3 dates. We haven’t yet kissed and I really can’t tell if she likes me or not. She has contacted me via email a few times but is playing it really cool. I quite like her and we get on well, but I just don’t know if it is going anywhere. What do you think I should do and is it worth me telling her that I like her?
Barry, UK
Cupid Says:
Hmmm… sounds to me like she is being really cautious and making sure there is a mutual feeling before she goes to the next stage. If you met her online then there is every possibility she is dating others and seeing what works for her – there is nothing wrong with that and you should allow her the space she needs to decide what she wants to do next. Ask for another date and check out some of my tips for reading her body language and gauging whether there is a spark for her there.
Also, at the end of the next date ask her whether she enjoys spending time with you. If she is a decent person she will be honest and upfront and let you know where you stand. You can also try leaving the communication in her court after the next date and just wait for her to come back to you – she will if she likes you.
Keep your options open and perhaps try dating a few others too. Like I say before there really isn’t a problem with this from a dating etiquette point of view.
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