How to chat up boys

Posted by Ruth Miller on Fri 24th August 2007 at 02:43 AM, Filed in Chat Me Up

Let me start this post by saying that 99% of men enjoy a chase. It’s written into their genetics from back yonder when they were cracking each others skulls in with a wooden club to get the girl.

Men of course will never admit this to you, again – something to do with their weird genetics of not showing a weakness, as they are presenting vulnerability and all that.

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If you want the boy of your dreams bear the above in mind and get him wanting you more by playing harder to get. Men often have a stronger sexual desire than women – ‘a need to shed their seed’ I call it, play on this and get them chasing you with a little harmless flirting. If you can do this then you are off to a great start.

When it comes to conversation, if he’s shy then you be bold and make the first move. Men love the attention to be honest, and he’ll be gob smacked by your confidence which he will find massively attractive.

Obviously avoid cheesy lines, boys are human as well and will cringe just like you would. Compliment him (and his ego) with one of the following:

“Wow, you look great” – this has a deep meaning to boys and he’ll be put at ease straight away with you.

“I love your t-shirt, it’s your colour”

“Are you out on your own tonight”

“I’d like to buy you a drink”

Just stay away from cheese! If e says ‘No’ there could be 1000 reasons so don’t take it to heart and move on!

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