How to find the woman of your dreams.
Men often make the common mistake of thinking that if you don’t have a washboard stomach, a great singing voice, a successful career, full head of hair, be dashingly handsome and rich, and have an amazing personality then you will never land the woman of your dreams. You have Hollywood to thank for that!
If it can work for him then it can work for anyone!!!
I have written 10 essential tips if you want to better yourself and become more desirable to women, follow them and you will change your entire outlook on dating and grow in confidence.
Ladies I’d appreciate your feedback here too, give us fellas some pointers, after all we are almost a different race to you!
1 – Eye Contact. Crucial for building trust from a ladies perspective. Next time you are at a bar you will subconsciously undress a woman with your eyes… don’t go there, women hate it!
2 – Become a listener. Many ladies like to feel they are being heard and most blokes like to talk about themselves. Shut up and listen, also ask some searching questions which will allow them to open up a little. Share some opinions as long as they are not sexist! Don’t whatever you do lie…. Women are smart and trust me they will work you out immediately.
3 – “Can’t buy me love”. The Beatles got it right, most women don’t want to feel indebted to you immediately and rightly so. By all means buy them a drink, but don’t force it on them. With the shocking rise in date-rapes you will also have to ensure the lady feels like she is in complete control of the situation. After buying her a drink don’t feel like she now owes you something… she doesn’t. If she likes you she will talk to you.
4 – Talk her language. Find out her interests and what she gets up to. It’s a known fact that people love talking about themselves, especially the ladies! Show a genuine interest and she will show an interest in you. Ask her some opinions. It’s almost like a market research exercise, use open ended thought provoking questions rather than closed. It’s too easy for them to get bored!
5 – Positive mental attitude. Keep conversation light, she doesn’t want to know how you were dumped by your ex for not getting an erection! Always say to yourself that ‘you are desirable’ and that is what your aura will give off.
6 – Make them laugh. It doesn’t matter if you are not a stand up comedian. All you are out to do is create a smile. As soon as you do this you will notice a hige change in dialogue and interest. Be creative with your words.
7 – Be seen with another woman. Make the initial contact with the woman you like, then leave her to get back to her mates. Go cha to a female friend and don’t get sleazy here as you could blow it. A lady likes to catch her prey and she will come after you if she is interested.
8 – Patience is a virtue. Don’t go jumping on her straight away. Play the sexual side of the encounter down and she will respect you. If she does want to be with you on the first night then it is unlikely she will respect you in the morning. She’ll see you as a serial shagger.
9 – Be remembered. When you decide to leave the venue or just stop talking to her then ask for her number and mention that you have enjoyed talking to her. Ask her whether she would like to come for a coffee with you perhaps. Don’t try to kiss her, but keep your body language open. Walk away. The key here is to keep her wanting more.
10 – Call her. Don’t wait for her. If there was instant chemistry then she will be pleased to hear from you. Read my article on ‘When to call after the first date’ . Don’t chicken out and email her or text her. A phone call is bold and far more responsive. She will be impressed.
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