How to stay friends with the ex after the break-up
If you are in a relationship where you have grown to love each other, but more as a brother sister kind of thing then this article is for you. In the past we’ve looked at
now it’s time to look at ways to stay friends. I’ve managed to stay friends with all my ex’s, and I’m really proud of that. There are a couple of rules of thumb that will ensure you remain good mates, and I’ve listed these below:
1. Give it time – don’t expect to be best buddies as soon as you break up. You will be kidding yourself if you believe this can happen. It will happen but you both need time to assess who you have grown to become and just rest from the other person. Six months with limited contact is recommended. By this time you’ll both have moved on and not be tempted for booty call.
2.No booty calls!!! – Before you pick up your mobile in the pub after a few beers and start typing things like ‘What are you up to right now?’ think about the other person and your motivations. No doubt you will be looking for an easy shag – but this can put even more distance between you as the relationship enters into a whole new stage.
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3. Remember special days. Don’t cut them off entirely; show that you are a true friend by remembering special occasions like birthdays, Christmas and Easter. They are a bit more than just a friend after all.
4. Give and take – if you were living with them then don’t fight over crappy little items. There will be mutual respect for each other and therefore an element of give and take.
5. Make an effort – call them up out of the blue and see if they fancy meeting for a drink and a catch-up. You will soon know if you want to remain good friends or acquaintances with them after a couple of drinks. Just don’t be tempted to dwell on the past and talk about the ‘If only’s’!
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