‘I Love You’… are you really ready to say it?
At the beginning of a great relationship it feels like it’s at the tip of your tongue to say, and it hurts to keep it in. Before you go blurting it out on the second date just have a think about how you are feeling.
How could you possibly love a stranger after a few dates let alone months of dating. Not only will you send them running to the nearest crown court for a restraining order, but you will probably feel a complete fool after you have said it as you will have more than likely confused it for feelings of lust – an easy mistake.
For many, especially men it’s extremely difficult to feel it let alone say it – it’s all part of that dreaded commitment thing that every man fights until he meets a woman stronger than him who kicks him into shape!
Let’s get back to the difference between love and lust. Although they initially feel the same, time tells them apart. Love is the stage after lust in a relationship – if it gets that far. Lust is the feeling whereby you want to spend every minute with a new partner, but normally naked. Love on the other hand rears its head after the lust stage whereby you retain the same feelings, but this time they go deeper and you feel like you can spend some serious time with this person.
So, before you go spurting out ‘I love you’ in the early days, normally as you are about to orgasm – just ask yourself ‘do I really or is it just the height of lust!’ – It can get you in some serious sh*t if you get it wrong!
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