Is it worth finding out why they broke up with you?
Posted by Peter Brady on Fri 1st June 2007 at 04:13 AM, Filed in General Dating
Being dumped feels like the end of the world for some, especially when no reason has been given to you. It’s natural to feel rejected and unwanted, you will also no doubt be chasing round and asking yourself, friends and family why they did it!
You need to know in order to move on, that’s how you feel.
You will probably have had the “It wasn’t working for me” speech which doesn’t actually give you what you want to hear. But do you really need to know their deep down reasons?
NO! Take it that they just didn’t click with you and that’s it. Who knows what they may have had going on in their life at the time… don’t waste your time thinking about it, just move on.
However, if after a few relationships over a short preiod of time you get the same answer… ask your friends what they think is going wrong. The normal case for this is getting ‘too clingy too quickly’.
Whatever you choose to do, don’t get embroiled in the situation, be strong, move on and remember that fate has played it’s part.
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