Kissing – Do’s and don’ts!
Kissing is probably the most intimate and non-verbal sexual tools at our disposal. You can say 1000 words with a kiss and everyone has different styles of doing so. You can tell if a relationship has legs by a kiss. We’ve all had bad ones, but the good ones make up for them. A kiss is arguably the biggest turn on – especially the first one! The heart beats so fast that it feels like it will burst out of your chest.
A brief kiss on the cheek is a common way of saying hello in most cultures, however if you extend this kiss by just another ½ second you can give some very powerful signals off and indicate your liking to someone – even if it is just on the cheek.
Probably the most famous kiss ever!
You should never force a kiss on someone, you will be able to tell if they are ready to be kissed. If they pull away as you go in for it then they are not comfortable with you and you may invade their space just a little too early. Just relax and make the move at the right time, and if you are patient then it will come.
When you want to kiss your date for the first time, be very cautious and just go for a soft and gentle kiss on the lips. Pull away quickly and then digest the reaction. If it’s good then go back for a more intimate kiss but don’t go shoving your tongue down their throat as this is a huge turnoff for most. Cold lips and tongue are a sign that you should back off as your partner won’t be aroused.
Do’s
Make sure your teeth are clean and your breath is fresh
Don’ts
Avoid smoking before a kiss – it’s like kissing an ashtray
Drink too much – your breath will probably smell and its also a bit of a turnoff
Try to re-enact a 1940’s film kiss!
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At what stage in a relationship is it good to use tongues and who should initiate it?
Posted by Cheryl on Mon 3rd July 2006 at 08:28 PM | #