Ladies, things you should never talk about with your male date.

Posted by Hayden Allen-Vercoe on Sun 14th January 2007 at 08:29 PM, Filed in Tips For First Dates

Although the average man is typically chilled out (I said average before you contest this statement), there are some things they really don’t want to know about.

So if you like him…  just be sure to avoid these topics of conversation if you want a second date!

Strong religious and alternative beliefs.
You will basically be putting your hand in the air and letting him know you were the weird one in school, and if you don’t scare him to death… the devil himself will when he comes out of your closet whilst you are shagging and eating a lentil sandwich… comprende!

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Past lovers.
When you say something like this to a guy and try to get another date after saying it, he’ll be thinking that you are a bunny boiling ex girlfriend of some bloke who looks nothing like him but somehow you’ll find a way to convince yourself that he is him and you never got over it!

Cute pets.
A sign of weakness I’m afraid. If you start talking about all the bunnies you keep and how cute and soft and furry they are, he’ll look at his watch and be thinking… ‘she wants kids… and soooooon!’

How much other men and people in general earn.
Men hate this, especially when brought up by a woman. As the hunter/gatherer they feel under enough pressure as it is in this day and age, the last thing they want to hear is how much your friend Chuck earns. It knocks confidence, riles them and generally makes you look completely shallow!
The future together.
Don’t whatever you do make assumptions about your future together after early dates. Men in general hate it and it can actually be a swift deal breaker. If it fees right hold back your emotions and get ready to express them after he has (if he’s that sort of guy), but wait at least 3 – 6 months!

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