My best friend’s holiday romance…

Posted by Hayden Allen-Vercoe on Tue 1st August 2006 at 07:24 AM, Filed in Dating Questions Answered

Hi

I’ve just got back from a holiday in Spain with my best friend (we are both girls) and am really upset with her. We both have long term boyfriends and when we were away she met a new bloke and decided to spend the entire holiday having this holiday romance and ignoring me. But that’s not why I’m upset with her, her boyfriend is crazy about her and a really nice guy and would break his heart if he found out about what she got up to. The guy she had a fling with was a complete tosser anyway!

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I’m not sure what to do as she is my best friend, but I feel really sorry for her man and would hate to see him hurt. What should I do?


Doctor Date says

The old holiday romance eh! I suggest you leave your friend and her man to it. If you told him then he may not talk to you again or suggest you are trying to break them up or similar. You will also lose your friend. Unfortunately to say, boyfriends come and go and if she can’t remain faithful then you can pretty much guarantee that it won’t go the distance anyway. I’d express your disappointment to her and suggest that she will lose him if she messes him about any more and therefore she needs to make a decision as to whether or not she wants to be with him any longer.

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