My chemical romance!

Posted by Tom Wilkins on Mon 17th September 2007 at 01:58 AM, Filed in Dating Questions Answered

Hi, can you help me…

I’ve been dating a girl for 3 months and really like her. The title of this email reflects the relationship – ‘my chemical romance’ because I’ve discovered she’s addicted to cocaine! I personally can’t stand the stuff and would love to see her step away from it entirely, but am I in my rights to ask her?

Yeah the sex is great and we both get on really well… apart from when she is on the dreaded come down when she basically hibernates. I don’t know what to do to be honest, do I carry on regardless thinking she’ll get bored of the stuff OR spot trouble now and get out?

Help!!!

Barry, UK

RESPONSE

Hi Barry

Thanks for your email titled ‘my chemical romance’. Funnily enough I had a very similar relationship many moons ago and tried my darndest to help her through her addiction which was for ‘speed’ rather than cocaine – all the same rubbish though!

We both liked each other and she tried to hide her addiction from me and lie – it all came out in the wash when her dealer turned up unannounced looking for some £££ and she got the boot!

Yes you do have options, but you have to weigh up whether you want to get involved because at the end of the day you will have to accept what she does if she is gonna keep doing it. BUT if you feel that strongly about her then simply talk to her and tell her that you don’t like it or who she becomes. If she chooses the drug over you then she has made the decision for you and has actually done you a favour!!!

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