Playing it too cool can be disastrous!
Posted by Hayden Allen on Tue 1st August 2006 at 05:17 AM, Filed in Tips For Dating
Most people have dished it out at some stage in their dating career, acting like you’re not really that bothered so as to attract more attention from their potential partner. Some people are better at it than others and you must know when to stop, otherwise you may as well wave goodbye to that person as they get bored with it.
I’m talking about not answering their calls, not agreeing to go out on a date with them, always saying you are too busy, never phoning them – all to get them to want you more.
It has to be said that ladies take more pleasure in doing this than men in general, but as a man I’d like to dispel the rumour that men like a chase… well, we like a chase but not too hard if you get my meaning.
It kills the passion and just ends up frustrating the other person. Playing it cool when you first meet someone is a good idea because you don’t want to open yourself up straight away and allow them to play havoc with your heart strings. But once you have been going out for a while (couple of months) it’s time to ease off the chase.
Just give in and you will have a great relationship where you both know where you stand most of the time.
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READER COMMENTS:
Umm tricky situation
Posted by Joyce on Tue 1st August 2006 at 08:26 AM | #