Signs you may have a stalker….

Posted by Hayden Allen-Vercoe on Sun 18th June 2006 at 07:13 AM, Filed in Dating Safety

We’ve all met one, in-fact you may have one looking through binoculars at us right now!  I’ve certainly met my share of them, from appearing in my bedroom at 1am to leaving strange notes on my car.

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Mrs Zita-Jones had a stalker for 3 years… he went to prison!

I wrote this article so as you can relate to things a possible stalker may do… or even you may do if you are the stalker!

Stalking behaviours are in fact quite common in our day and age, especially with the world embracing digital communication and ‘The Big Brother’ syndrome!

Let’s start with a definition of a stalker:
“A stalker is someone who is overly concerned with someone else’s behavior. This ‘concern’ leads them to play an intrusive role (seen or unseen) in that person’s life”.


Here are some common traits:

- The stalker seems to appear wherever you go
- You get regular phone calls with ‘number withheld’
- Your friends are approached by someone who always asks after you
- You get emails / calls at work from this person regularly and there is no reason
- You get anonymous letters delivered

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