Take the pressure out of dating…
Posted by Peter Brady on Sun 20th May 2007 at 05:01 AM, Filed in Tips For Dating
When you put yourself into the category of being single and dating you are immediately putting yourself at a disadvantage and putting far to much pressure on the whole situation. This is a huge turn off!
Dating should be a fun past-time but for most of us it’s an absolute nightmare! You can’t go out without saying to yourself “what’s wrong with me, I can’t pull” or something else just as daft! The reason is that you are giving off the wrong vibes because you are putting too much pressure on the whole thing.
I know it’s easy for me to sit here and type that, but it’s true. Rather than go down the local bar which you relate closely to trying to find a date (and failing), go somewhere else for a change – a new bar or even a new city, try salsa or ballroom even. Go and explore, that’s the main benefit of being single – no-one to answer to!
You’ll find that when you go somewhere new you will forget about all the pressure about meeting someone and actually enjoy yourself more. People will then see the ‘real you’ and a natural smile, this is what people warm to!
Go try something different for a change, after all variety is the spice of life!
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