There’s this guy at work…
There’s this guy at work who I think is really cute. I don’t know if he has noticed me and I’d really appreciate some advice as to how to get noticed and win him over. He’s not in my department and we are on different floors in the building so don’t get to see him that often which makes me think it could work.
My friends say I should go for it but I am really scared of getting knocked back.
Help!
Cupid says:
Go for it, but be aware that if it doesn’t work then you have to face that person regularly. A good time to make your move would be out of work, this way the pressure is off the person and you’ll have more chance of a positive answer. I always say nothing ventured nothing gained and you will only kick yourself if you don’t ask. Suggest a coffee or lunch somewhere and just go have a chat. He will gauge you are interested because you have noticed him and wish to spend time with him and should therefore get a quick indication whether or not he is game.
Try to keep it away from work colleagues as they could do more harm than good. Obviously in time, and if you do end up dating, then you should tell a select few. People at work tend to like a bit of gossip and therefore rumours will fly…
Dating at work can be really rewarding if it works out, but do be aware that there are downfalls.
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