Top 10 ways to kiss goodbye to a relationship
Having recently asked 30 long and short term couples what they felt were the biggest causes of breakups here in the UK and in this day and age, I was surprised at the results. In no particular order…
1. Lack of communication
You never know how they are feeling and it drives you crazy because they don’t talk to you about it and you never know where you stand!
2. Feeling there is something better out there
It’s common that throughout the life of a relationship (unless it’s true love of course) that you think you can score more highly with either a better looking partner or someone who you connect with better.
3. Bad habits
I’m talking about the annoying habits such as farting, belching, getting too drunk all the time. Fair enough for the odd time, but after a while it grinds you down!
4. Too keen / suffocating
It’s easy to run into a relationship with full steam and pour out your heart to them. Just be aware that you are quite possibly scaring them away as it’s too much too soon! ‘Play it cool trig’
5. They are too indecisive!
Some people are incredibly decisive, and meeting an indecisive person drives them crazy. In fact there is nothing worse than a ditherer!
6. Different ambitions
As the relationship matures you may find you both want different things out of life and decide to call it a day. I’m talking kids, career, standards of living… etc.
7. Lack of trust
If ever you have betrayed the trust of your partner, it’s the hardest thing to get it back and it takes lots of time. If you are n this position consider whether or not it’s actually worth making the effort and then get creative.
8. Wandering eye / cheating
With the growing temptation of checking out Friends Reunited or a dating site for a quick fling, it’s never been easier I’m sad to say.
9. Confrontational / aggressive
Unfortunately some people end up with partners who on the outset are extremely pleasant, but after few drinks they turn to violence. This is no way to conduct a relationship and the best place for you if you are victim to this is out of there… and no ‘BUTs’!
10. Bad sex!
Sex is extremely important in a relationship, especially good sex. In fact good sex can be the sole reason people stay together sometimes. Ask them what turns them on and you tell them what turns you on, and hey presto you normally have great sex and a lasting relationship!
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