Warning signs that they are looking to finish it.
The end of a relationship often brings with it heartache and despair and unfortunately this is unavoidable. If you are forewarned to a potential break up then you are forearmed and you can prepare yourself for the worst.
Here are a few ways you can spot the break up, or possibly you may want to use them to give hints that you want to do it!
1 - They ‘go to ground’.
Not necessarily a sign that it is over, but if you are often on the phone to each other and then suddenly can’t get hold of them.. you gotta ask yourself what’s up!
2 – Looking for a fight.
Are they biting your head off at the smallest thing? Are arguments becoming more and more petty. This is often a sign they are looking for ‘you’ to finish it as they don’t have the balls. Be straight and ask them.
3 – Secrets.
If they start to avoid the detail of a night out (for instance) or perhaps who just called or texted, or maybe they disappear for a few hours, then you can’t help but be suspicious.
4 – They become singular.
Rather than talking about ‘we’ as a couple, they may start talking about ‘I’ and becoming noticeably more selfish.
5 – Conversation gets sparse.
They have probably been your best friend for a long while and all of a sudden you have nothing in common or to talk about.
6 – Sex gets monotonous.
If they lose the will to do it as much OR it just feels monotonous then they could have other things on their mind… OR it could be a good opportunity for you to try something new and exciting.
7 – They pick holes.
They may become more critical of you and the way you look. This is because they need to take their guilt out on the closest person to them.
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READER COMMENTS:
Jeez, my relationship is over dude!
Posted by Dodo on Thu 21st September 2006 at 02:59 PM | #