When and how to introduce bedroom toys into a relationship!
An interesting question. One of those with an interesting answer.
You will soon learn just how liberal your new partner is just by experimenting as you would do normally in a new relationship. Normally in a new relationship you can’t keep your hands off each other, it’s all new and sexual pleasure at its peak. It’s like having a new toy you can’t leave alone.
During this period you will learn a lot about each other, predominantly what turns them on or off. Bedroom toys are often a taboo subject in the early stages of a relationship because they are the intimate secrets of their past. Therefore if you want to broach the subject you need to be careful as not to embarrass the other.
If one of these bad boys comes out… get ready for kinky!
If you want to get onto the subject an idea may be to suggest a date around your local city’s local Ann Summers shop or similar, this way you can introduce the subject in a light hearted manner as you see the ‘Rampant Rabbit’ in the shop window. A simple tongue in cheek ‘wow, look at that, bet it gives some thrills’ can open the subject right up without it becoming threatening or forced onto your partner. You never know they may even suggest you buy one together then and there!
Obviously there are different levels of toys, some bring pain and pleasure, some just pain, and of course some that just bring pleasure. You will soon know what they are into after the first few sexual encounters, and if it is rather kinky and you are comfortable with it, then go get a whip or whatever heightens that pleasure.
Don’t ever be forced into something you don’t want to do. If it doesn’t feel right then you need to take control and advise that you are uncomfortable. If they then persist then it’s time to leave!
Don’t feel awkward about the introduction of toys, they can do wonders for a relationship!
Try these sites for some great deals and ranges for all tastes:
bedroompleasures.co.uk
lovehoney.co.uk
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