You need to kiss a few frogs before you find a prince
Breaking up is never normally an easy task to deal with. Not only for the recipient but also for the person having to do it…
We all typically have a few relationships before we find a person we want to spend the rest of our lives with. The old saying ‘you need to kiss a few frogs before you find a prince’ always runs true.
From my experiences dealing with break ups of all degrees, I can give you the following as advice to help you through the hard times:
1 – Don’t take the break up as a personal attack on you, it almost always isn’t. Just accept that the feelings were not mutual and enjoy being a singledon again.
2 – If you are doing the breaking up, always do it face to face. Although this is really hard to do, it’s so important that you do this so as to help the other person deal with it. Its short term pain for long term gain. It will also build your confidence and stop the guilty feelings.
3 – We all know when our hearts are not in it. Be honest with yourself and own up. It’ll drive you insane if you just go on for the hell of it.
4 – If you have been dumped, if it helps box up all the items that remind you of that person and either store them out of site or give them back to the person. This process can ease the pain and gets rid of all the hurtful memories.
5 – When you are ready to move on, let your friends know and ask them to set you up with someone they feel is suitable for you, or join a dating site, or even try speed dating.
Remember - there is someone out there for everyone.
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